Small thought

The follow up post will be up in a day or two or so – being lazy. And it’s late. Just want to talk about changes and perspectives. People can change. You can change. Sometimes others change while you stay the same; other times you change but others don’t. What does this all mean? I’ve […]

Friends Analysis

Went out today to friend’s house. Again I felt I was apart from the rest. Mainly because I am stronger in holding in my own beliefs and principles while they can change to accomodate the rest, hence they are closer to the group than I am. Let’s say D3, he’s the better friend in terms […]

Friend Thoughts

Might’ve said this before but when your vision of interests diverse from your hang out group, you step back from that group gradually and eventually out of that group circle without noticing. Because 道不同不相為謀 (or when (their) morality differs (from yours), you won’t relate to them), they will only invite the people with the same […]

Groups – Ingroups, Outgroups

Everyone has his or her own ‘voice’ in a group. A group is a circle of people nearby you. There are psychological terms ‘ingroup’ and ‘outgroup’ to determine who is inside your circle and who is outside it. People inside your ingroups can be said to be your friends whom you share thoughts and experiences […]

Scarred Friendship

Once a friendship has been scarred, it is scarred forever. In this context I mean there is some damage to the connection between one and another. Of course there are some cases where the two get back along together and perhaps even closer than before. But in this context, it means although you have once […]

From friends to being boy/girlfriends.

Something interesting that someone raised in the past that is worth considering upon, which is the ideal time in being friends before you can progress to being together as a couple. The time is roughly four months.. and apparently after that the chances of pursuing the girl to being your girlfriend is slim, or slimmer […]