Groups – Ingroups, Outgroups

Everyone has his or her own ‘voice’ in a group. A group is a circle of people nearby you. There are psychological terms ‘ingroup’ and ‘outgroup’ to determine who is inside your circle and who is outside it. People inside your ingroups can be said to be your friends whom you share thoughts and experiences […]

Things never come easy – Part II.

A spontaneous thought that came to me a few minutes ago… and this is a followup of my other post from Things Never Come Easy on April the 9th… Anyway… you know when you care about someone, you think more than usual. When the girl doesn’t act according to your expectations then you start thinking… a […]


Life is a game, or rather, an acting game. It’s either you are the actor, or you are the director. The actor is the passive form, while the active is the director. As a director, you direct yourself how you want to behave in front of others… and the actor is to act a particular […]

Things never come easy.

Right? Think about it. Usually the things that you want come uneasy. Then there are things that come to you fairly easily but usually you don’t want it as much. For example, if you don’t like a particular girl, she prolly likes you fairly easily, without you expecting that would happen. Contrastly, if you do […]